Sunday, February 15, 2009

Whats been going on with the Carrs.....

Alot has has gone on in the past few weeks. First, this past week has been a very eventful week at the Dentsist office for both Nate and I. It kind of had to be becasue with our insurance expiring at the end of this month we wanted to get all the stuff we needed to get done done so instead of having thousands of dollars in dental bills it would be just a few fundred. So, starting with me, I got a root canal done on Wednesday which really wasn't as bad as I was expecting it to be. We have an AWEOME dentits so i'll give all the credit to him. I also had a little bump taken off the back of my throat to get sent in for a biposy. The dentist just thinks it's just a little infection nothing too major but just to be safe he wanted it tested. Then on Friday Nate had all four of his wisdom teeth taken out. They were already pushed through the skin so the procedure wasn't as bad as it could've been. He's been doing pretty good though, just a wee bit out of due to the meds. So as you can imagine we've had a house filled with sore mouths. Kinda sucks it was right before Valentines Day no yummy food or yummy kisses :) I guess we'll just have to celebrate it a little late!
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The other thing that has been going on in the Carr house is a pretty big deal! Druw is being POTTY TRAINED!!! He has done surprisingly very well. I tried a few months ago and he just wasn't having it. I didn't want to push it so I waited. I just decided to give it another shot last weekend. This time I made a cute little Potty Chart with fun stickers and put it on the wall right across from the toilet so he sees it everytime he sits down to go. I also am doing the whole reward with a piece a candy. So evertime he goes he gets to put a sticker on his chart and he also earns a tootsie roll. He LOVES it!! I really am so impressed with how well he's doing. He will even go without me telling or helping him. He'll just coming runnig up to me all excited saying , " I did it , I go potty in the toywet... yay!!" Then he'll take my hand guide me to the bathroom and say "see" then he flushes the toilet. I still help him wipe but he's getting the hang of it. I love it! We have little prizes marked on the chart, which is like a toy from the dollar store or somthing but his big prize when he fills up the whole potty chart for both the pee and the poo (which is 16 times each one ) is of course switching to big boy underwear, but Nate and I also decided we would take him to a movie at the dollar theater and out to ice cream . We probably are going a little over board but he is our first and it's a big deal for us and him so we want him to know how happy and proud we are of him that he "did it!!"


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Lastly I was just called to be in the Young Womens. I am the Sports Director and Assistant Camp Director. I am SO looking forward to these callings. It's funny becasue I still feel and consider myself to be one of the 'girls' since i'm really not that much older than some of them. But it's going to be really fun and neat going to Young Womens as a leader and a teacher instead of a as young women. I hope i'll do a good job!!!

Thursday, February 5, 2009

HaRd TiMeS.......

So for those who don't know yet, Nate was laid off from his job Friday January 23 due to the economy. It's been a rough couple weeks for us. Yesterday everything just kinda "hit" me and it hit me hard about our situation. I had so much going through my mind, bills, work, money etc.... it consumed my every thought! I tried but I just couldn't countrol my emotions, I really was just an emotinal mess. I think it was a good thing for me though that I allowed myself that breakdown. I believe in some cases, this being one for me, it's a stress releiver to allow those raw emotions to come out. I let it out and that's all I needed. I'm much better today! A hopeful positive attitude is what i'm going to strive for from here on out. I know I have SO SO SO much to be greatful for and that's what i'm going to focus on. I'm not so much bitter on WHY this happened to us, playing the whole WHY me/us card does absolutely no good. It's the HOW/WHAT that we need to ask ourselves. How can we overcome this and WHAT are we going to do to do that? It is a very scary time to loose a job with the way the economy is and with most places not hiring. So the unkown is what scares us the most, but right now we really are just putting all our faith and trust in the Lord that he is aware of us and our situation and that things will work out for us the way they are supposed to. I strongly believe everything happens for a reason and that this is just a trial we have been faced with but that we WILL overcome. Things will be okay! I know there are so many other people out there in the world who are going through their own adverisities and ours is very mild to most so I really do consider ourselves very lucky when I look at it like that. Things could be alot worse!! My mom, who was the shoulder I had to cry on for the most part, (thanks mom:) had me look up a scripture, it was D&C 68:6 it reads: "Wherefore be of good cheer, and do not fear, for I the Lord am with you, and will stand by you; an ye shall bear record of me, even Jesus Christ, that I am the Son of the living God, that I was that I am, and that I am to come." Reading this scripture really gave me a peaceful feeling. I know we are not alone even though it seems that way at times. We have a loving Heavanly Father who cares about us and is very much aware of us and all our situations. How comforting it is to know that!!! So to all our friends and family please if you can just keep us in you prayers, it'd be very much appreciated!!! We love you all!!!
-I just want to say to Nate that I love you and I am SO greatful for all the hard work do daily for our family and you do it without even with one complant. You are a great example to Druw on what a hard woking man is. Keep your head up babe we'll get through this...things will be okay..... I love you!!!! :)